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What is #J’Ouvert?

September 5, 2016

On Labor Day in Brooklyn every year there is a street carnival to mimic the Carnival in Trinidad which held the week before Lent.  It is a chance for the West Indians living in New York to celebrate together with traditional costumes and musical competitions.  In Port of Spain the best steel drum bands bring it to Panorama in the Grand Savannah.  In Brooklyn the steel bands are small, but many of the really popular pan virtuosos move to New York to further their careers in music.  The performers who are paid to entertain at the Brooklyn Museum are the same ones who appear on the big stage in Trinidad.

I attended the Brooklyn Carnival in September of 1989 when Dinkins was running for mayor against Ed Koch.  At that time New York City was a big, fat, violent mess.  The racial tension was palpable.  The murder  of a teenager in Bensonhurst, Brooklyn turned New York into a symbol of racial hatred and violence.  The Koch/Dinkins race was perceived to be mostly about race.  All my friends who lived in Manhattan told me I would get killed if I went to the Carnival just for being white.  I already had my tickets to see the Mighty Sparrow  and Tambu in a small venue, and I was not at all to be dissuaded.

Two things happened to me that week that were spectacular. There was a show running on Broadway called Black and Blue playing at the sumptuously classy Minscoff Theater.  It was sold out, but I decided to go down to the box office right before a matinee and try my luck for a standing room only spot.  The box office had nothing to sell me.  A lady from group of extremely well dressed black people approached me and asked if I wanted a free ticket because their friend had cancelled.  I offered to pay but she refused. I then proceeded to watch the show in a very good seat, way down front, right smack in the center of my new best friends.  I was underdressed to be with them, but they did not seem to mind. I thanked them profusely, but we all had this feeling we were doing something kind of symbolic (because we were).  I accepted the rare generosity and they bestowed it on me as some kind of show of racial solidarity.  It was very cool.

I then felt completely confident to ignore my wimpy Manhattan friends who thought it was dangerous to go to a show at the Brooklyn Museum.  I saw great musicians, had a wonderful time with my fellow concert goers, and then the most magical thing happened.  The Mighty Sparrow, the undisputed king of Trinidad Carnival off all time, stepped down from the stage into the crowd in his Congo Man costume.  He had just performed the song, and since the crowd was so tiny compared to Port of Spain, where he would have been mauled by fans, he personally mingled with the audience.  I was hugged by the Mighty Sparrow in his Congo Man costume.  Very few people can say that.  I treasure the experience forever.

This year shootings erupted at the J’Ouvert parade and celebration.  This warm up event is a costumed street parade leading up to the more formal Fat Tuesday costume balls and floats.  It happens before dawn on Carnival Monday in Port of Spain.  The costumes are anything but fancy, because celebrates the dark, sinful side of life before Lent takes over the calendar. It is time to blow it all out before 6 weeks of some kind of penance.  The mas players who want to do it all start on Monday, then sleep very little between that opening party and Tuesday at midnight when it ends abruptly.  The political significance is huge because it was the time slaves and European masters exchanged places in a symbolic way. This is where the very sarcastic and political practice of calypso was started. Brooklyn is now one of the places on earth that still has this culture.

Asteya

October 4, 2012

Honoring what belongs to others is a yama, or social restraint, set out by Patanjali in the yoga sutras. To practice asteya is to understand that being satisfied with what I have is essential to my contribution to society. It also requires that I honor the time, accomplishments, and possesions of others. The yamas are simple and straightforward, designed for endless practice.   They provide an ethical framework for living in this world while seeking enlightenment. Asteya has the effect of priming the pump by a mindset of coveting absolutely nothing. It is to be satisfied.  It is to respect everyone’s boundaries and belongings.  The most precious belonging anyone has is time.

Lena West

At the TribeUpNY on the equinox we enjoyed the presence and the teachings of Ms. Lena West, social marketing historian/wizard/teacher cum laude.  She made the excellent point that time is not money, as the trite saying would have us believe.  She ably demonstrated that time wasted can never be found.  Money can be leveraged.   If one cares to increase the value and the impact of time it must be leveraged as well.  Her point is that influence is real, is valuable, and is gained by leveraging ( focusing) time. It was not her intention to come off yogic.  Her message was 100 % asteya.  Do what you do well. Don’t try to digest the entirety of the world at all times.  Make and respect boundaries that create value.  When you focus on your own well, take care of it and set limits on it, flow happens.  When your focus travels to distractions of any kind you loose the value of the time that is only given once.  I think Lena Patanjali West is brilliant. Here is her presentation from TribeUp:

New York Revisited

September 25, 2012 4 Comments

I had not been to New York City since June of 2001. The World Trade Center was there last time I looked. A recent visit for a fast paced weekend reminded me why I love the city.  I like the way NewYorkers talk, dress, act, and the way they interact.  For one afternoon I attended a conference for bloggers which I enjoyed immensely.  I met in person some people I have known digitally for a long time, and others I had just recently followed. The Triberr conference made the trip worth the effort, but the city itself provided the perfect place to be.

I stayed in Chelsea at a very well priced and, for me, well positioned small hotel called the Chelsea Inn.  It was Euro stye with breakfast vouchers for the Belgian cafe next door.  I was happy with my giant room on the ground floor with antique fixtures and furniture.  It was comfortable, secure, and clean.  The staff made me feel very welcome.  I did share a wall and the street noise with Manhattan’s busiest nightclub, The Splash.  For me, this was not a problem.  Not everyone is prepared to deal with that level of noise, but I was just reminded that I was not in Tucson any more.  The up sides of the area far outweighed the issue of the pulsing beat all night.

My spacious room at the Inn

I thrift shop for a lot of reasons, not the least of which is the chance to find some vintage items in good condition.  I sew and know fabric, so I usually feel self assured about my talent and skill as a savvy thrift shopper.  In New York City, however, the thrifters have a bigger, better market from which to choose.  They may even have jobs in the fashion industry.  I noticed right off the bat that the company of shoppers was very advanced in discernment.  The prices were so low and the quality so high that I wanted the entire inventory at the Angel Street Shop.  I was over my head here, and had no room in my carry on baggage to take much back home with me.   I had to leave empty in order to return later with more composure.

I dined, shopped, walked and gawked at the architectural detail in Chelsea, which is forever to be my new New York ‘hood.  I have determined, after a really excellent shopping spree with my friend Margaret, that it can be totally worth the effort and the airfare to fly here and do all of one’s shopping.  I did not even take in the two very local museums, Rubin and Jewish History, just blocks from my new hotel home.  The value and the entertainment never stop in New York.  I will not wait so long to return.

Thrift Angel

Inn

Reversible jacket fits