The Gossip Archetype

February 15, 2013 — 2 Comments

If you have attended an elementary school you have been involved in gossip. Private information spreading is power for the gossip. It can have two distinct patterns running at the same time. Damaging or false information may be spread as well as flattering or promotional stories.  This is a member of the creative family and can be considered to be artful and expressive.  Dr. Phil and his ilk fit into this category. Networking can be a positive form of gossip designed to help others.  To make the best of your own gossip within notice the news you spread and why you do it.  To a certain extent we all make our own PR as well as our own self image.  We spotlight or eliminate part of the story for effect, even if we are unconscious of it, and even in our memories.

How can the gossip teach us to respect the feelings of others? If you observe your own communication carefully you can spot trends.  The shadow gossip my bring you news of all kinds, but it is not your job to share it.  I know plenty of people who do not watch cable TV but are still influenced to believe what they are told, read, or hear.  Due diligence is your friend when it comes to discernment and discretion.  Know what you mean to say and why.