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Book of Sports, Work Life Balance

June 15, 2015

Book of Sports

Book of Sports

When James I of England published the Book of Sports in 1617 it caused an uproar from the Puritans.  The belief that no work or pleasure should take place on the sabbath was much debated at that time in Britain.  The book was published after King James had his very own translation of the Bible released.  Trouble was brewing in the British Isles that would eventually lead to the settlement of Plymouth Colony.  The Puritans believed that all citizens must be required to attend religious services on Sunday, and they wanted them mandatory morning and evening on that day.  Many of my own ancestors left England to live in Holland for a decade about that time, before sailing on the Mayflower to America.  All the countries in Europe posed problems to their ideals except the Netherlands.  There they could practice their severe brand of religion.  There they built up strength to go to the new world.

The concept is taught to American children that these people came to America for religious freedom. That is only partially the case.  They wanted to be free to dominate others and force them to follow Puritan rules. The freedom was just for their own religious beliefs, but did not apply to the beliefs of others.  They were convinced of the righteousness of their logic.  This made life in the new colony very contentious. It was easy to run afoul of the Pilgrim fathers who were all about sabbath and strict adherence.

Charles I reissued the Declaration of Sports in 1633, continuing the tradition of requiring attendance to religious services (in the Church of England) to qualify to dance, leap, or play sports on Sunday.  There were a few sports not permitted on the sabbath such as bear and bull baiting and bowling.  Charles I expanded the merriment to include local fairs and festivals on the list of sanctioned Sunday activities.  England was trending Puritan in the 1630’s. In 1643 the book was publicly burned.  When Charles II was restored to the throne after the English Civil War in 1660 the country was liberated from the strict sabbath rules and could once again party on Sunday afternoons.

When we think about sports and religion in America today we observe a very different story.  Church attendance and membership are dropping off dramatically, but sports dominate the public attention.  It is ironic to think that our initial colony was founded to make sure that Sunday would be sport free for everyone.  I wonder what the Pilgrim fathers would think of the NFL and the NBA.

What is Community Policing?

June 14, 2015 1 Comment

The term community policing has been tossed around in the media lately by experts and citizens of all kinds. This trending topic has been defined by the US Department of Justice:

Community policing is a philosophy that promotes organizational strategies, which support the systematic use of partnerships and problem-solving techniques, to proactively address the immediate conditions that give rise to public safety issues such as crime, social disorder, and fear of crime. Community policing is composed of three key components:

Partnerships – Collaborative partnerships between the law enforcement agency and the individuals and organizations they serve to develop solutions to problems and increase trust in police.
Organizational Transformation – The alignment of organizational management, structure, personnel, and information systems to support community partnerships and proactive problem solving.
Problem Solving – The process of engaging in the proactive and systematic examination of identified problems to develop and evaluate effective responses.

I hope incorporation of these policies will take place as soon as possible. Within the organizational transformation plan is a geographic approach to assignments.  In other words, provide neighborhood cops who know and interact with a certain area by assigning them to that area.  This is essential in my opinion, and would be helpful where I live.  The advice given is to despecialize the force, creating a more generally skilled team to handle most situations.  Problem solving and cooperation with the public have been missing elements to improving the safety in our city. Obvious ongoing crime would be obvious to any cop who patrolled here all the time.  The force would see what we see, and even become known to the neighbors.  These concepts will improve safety for both officers and the public.

Elizabeth Dutchess Norfolk Stafford Howard, 15th Great-Grandmother

June 11, 2015 4 Comments

Elizabeth Stafford

Elizabeth Stafford

My 15th great-grandmother was married to a duke who treated her very badly.  She was involved with court intrigue during the reign of Henry VIII.

Elizabeth Stafford was the daughter of Edward, 3rd duke of Buckingham (February 3,1478-May 17,1521) and Eleanor Percy (1470-1530). Robert Hutchinson’s House of Treason gives alternate life dates as 1493-September 4, 1558. Elizabeth was to have married one of her father’s wards, Ralph Neville, earl of Westmorland, at Christmas 1512, but shortly before that she acquired a new suitor in the person of the recently widowed Thomas Howard, earl of Surrey (1473-August 25,1554).

Buckingham offered his other daughters to Sussex, but the earl was determined to have Elizabeth, described by Jessie Childs in Henry VIII’s Last Victim: The Life and Times of Henry Howard, Earl of Surrey as “…passably pretty, with soft features, light colouring and a distinguished forehead….”

Early in 1513, Elizabeth married Surrey, bringing with her a dowry of 2,000 marks. They had five children:
Henry (1517-x.January 19,1547),
Mary (1519-December 9,1557),
Charles (d.yng),
Thomas (1528-1582), and a fifth child who died young and may have been named Muriel.

Elizabeth was often at court and became close friends with Catherine of Aragon. She carried Princess Mary to the font at the princess’s christening in 1516 and was a patron of the poet John Skelton, who describes Elizabeth and her ladies making a chapelet in the poem “A Goodly Garlande or Chapelet of Laurell.” When the earl of Surrey was appointed Lord Lieutenant of Ireland in 1520, he was ordered to take his entire family with him.

There they were exposed to war, disease, crowded conditions, and severe shortages of just about everything. To make matters worse, during their sojourn in Ireland, Elizabeth’s father was accused of treason and beheaded. In 1524, with the death of her father-in-law, Elizabeth became duchess of Norfolk. She continued to serve as a lady-in-waiting to the queen, at court for months at a time, but with the king’s growing determination to obtain a divorce, her role changed.

By 1530, Elizabeth was spying on her own husband, on the lookout for any information that would help Queen Catherine. By then, there were also problems in Elizabeth’s marriage. In 1526, Norfolk took Bess Holland, daughter of his chief steward, as his mistress, a long-term relationship which he did not trouble to keep secret from his wife.

Elizabeth continued to be vocal in her support of Catherine of Aragon. Norfolk, and most of the Howard family, favored the king’s plan to marry Anne Boleyn, whose mother was a Howard. Elizabeth went so far as to refuse to bear Anne’s train at her investiture as Marchioness of Pembroke and was conspicuously absent from both Anne’s coronation and the christening of Princess Elizabeth. In May,1533, Norfolk wrote to Elizabeth’s brother, Henry Stafford, asking him to take her in. Stafford refused, expressing the fear that “…her accustomed wild language…” would place him and his family in danger if he did so.

The matter came to a head on Tuesday of Passion Week, 1534. Norfolk arrived at Kenninghall, his principal residence, to find his wife in a rage because he was still keeping Bess Holland as his mistress. Norfolk’s response was to lock Elizabeth in her chamber, then banish her to Redbourne, a manor in Hertfordshire. Elizabeth referred to this as imprisonment, even though she had twenty servants and an allowance of three hundred marks per annum.

Legally Norfolk was within his rights to do as he wished with her. She tried three times for a reconciliation, but to no avail. Norfolk was not about to forgive some of the claims she had made, including one that he had assaulted her when she was pregnant with their daughter in 1519. Some of the charges may indeed have been “false and abominable lies,” but Norfolk was known to have a temper, too. In 1541, Elizabeth was still trying to regain freedom of movement, as well as a bigger allowance.

Her children, to her distress, sided with their father. Indeed, most people did. Wives were expected to put up with their husbands’ infidelities, not make a fuss about them. Upon Mary Tudor’s accession, Elizabeth returned to court and there was reunited with her husband, who had been in the Tower of London since 1547. He died at Kenninghall the following August.

Although both Elizabeth and Norfolk appear in effigy on the same monument in Framlingham, completed in 1559, only he is buried there. She was interred in the Howard Chapel in St. Mary’s Church, Lambeth, in December 1558. The epitaph written by her brother lauds her kindness and says she was to him “a mother, sister, a friend most dear.”

Biography:
“Marriage Sixteenth-Century Style: Elizabeth Stafford and the Third Duke of Norfolk” by Barbara J. Harris in Journal of Social History, 15/3 (1982).
Source– A WHO’S WHO OF TUDOR WOMEN: Stafford

Elizabeth Dutchess Norfolk Stafford Howard (1497 – 1558)
is my 15th great grandmother
Lady Katherine Howard Duchess Bridgewater (1495 – 1554)
daughter of Elizabeth Dutchess Norfolk Stafford Howard
William ApRhys (1522 – 1588)
son of Lady Katherine Howard Duchess Bridgewater
Henry Rice (1555 – 1621)
son of William ApRhys
Edmund Rice (1594 – 1663)
son of Henry Rice
Edward Rice (1622 – 1712)
son of Edmund Rice
Lydia Rice (1649 – 1723)
daughter of Edward Rice
Lydia Woods (1672 – 1738)
daughter of Lydia Rice
Lydia Eager (1696 – 1735)
daughter of Lydia Woods
Mary Thomas (1729 – 1801)
daughter of Lydia Eager
Joseph Morse III (1756 – 1835)
son of Mary Thomas
John Henry Morse (1775 – 1864)
son of Joseph Morse III
Abner Morse (1808 – 1838)
son of John Henry Morse
Daniel Rowland Morse (1838 – 1910)
son of Abner Morse
Jason A Morse (1862 – 1932)
son of Daniel Rowland Morse
Ernest Abner Morse (1890 – 1965)
son of Jason A Morse
Richard Arden Morse (1920 – 2004)
son of Ernest Abner Morse
Pamela Morse
I am the daughter of Richard Arden Morse

Elizabeth Howard (nee Stafford) (1494- 30 November1558) was the daughter of Edward Stafford, 3rd Duke of Buckingham and the wife of Thomas Howard, 3rd Duke of Norfolk.
Elizabeth was born in 1494, the eldest daughter of Edward Stafford, 3rd Duke of Buckingham (3 September1478-1521 and Eleanor Percy. Her paternal grandparents were Henry Stafford, 2nd Duke of Buckingham and Catherine Woodville. Her maternal ancestors were Henry Percy, 4th Earl of Northumberland and Maud Herbert. Her grandfather, the Duke of Buckingham, was executed in 1483 by King Richard III for treason, and in 1521, her own father suffered the same fate when he was beheaded on Tower Hill for treason against his king, Henry VIII. Elizabeth had two sisters, Mary, Lady Bergavenny and Catherine, Countess Westmoreland, and a brother, Henry Stafford, 1st Baron Stafford.
On 8 January1513, Elizabeth married Thomas Howard, earl of Surrey, who in 1524, would become the 3rd Duke of Norfolk. The marriage was his second. His first wife had been Anne of York, the daughter of Edward IV, but none of their children had lived beyond early infancy. Elizabeth bore her husband four surviving children but their marriage was unhappy and violent. He had taken as his mistress Bess Holland, who was her own laundress, and when Elizabeth protested, calling her “a churl’s daughter who was but a washer in my nursery for eight years” Howard savagely beat her. She later accused his mistress of striking her. They separated in 1533, the year Howard’s niece, Anne Boleyn, was crowned Queen of England. Elizabeth did not like Anne and was staunchly partisan in favour of Catherine of Aragon. In 1530, Elizabeth smuggled letters received from Italy to Catherine concealed in oranges Elizabeth also later told the Spanish Ambassador, Eustace Chapuys, that Howard had confided in her that “Anne would be the ruin of all her family”.. Anne, however, managed to win the favour of Elizabeth by arranging brilliant matches for the Howard children. Henry was married to the daughter of the Earl of Oxford, while Mary married the King’s illegitimate son, Henry FitzRoy, 1st Duke of Richmond and Somerset. Appeased, Elizabeth stopped plotting against Anne and returned to Court. She died on 30 November 1558 in Lambeth, London at the age of sixty-four. Elizabeth was the Dowager Duchess of Norfolk at the time of her death, her estranged husband, the Duke, having died four years earlier. She was buried on 7 December 1558 in Lambeth.
Elizabeth was often at court and became close friends with Catherine of Aragon. She carried Princess Mary to the font at the princess’s christening in 1516.

Elizabeth Stafford, Duchess of Norfolk, wife of Anne Boleyn’s uncle Thomas Howard, Duke of Norfolk

Elizabeth Stafford

Elizabeth Stafford

 

Fitness Feedback, The Sleep Monitor

June 10, 2015 2 Comments

sky

sky

The systems now available to measure and monitor health are mind blowing.  This slice of health care/technology is growing more popular each day.  I started using Fitbit last fall to increase my movement.  It is effective motivation to see performance increase over time, complete with graphs.  I recently became most interested in the sleep measuring ability of my little wrist band.

MY SLEEP LOG

MY SLEEP LOG

As you can see I am frequently awakened during the night. My dog needs to go out and I must  walk down a flight of stairs to do the task, so it does disturb my slumber.  I am working this week to push back towards longer deeper sleep by using honey.  Last night on the 3rd trip down with the dog I drank a shot of honey and warm milk, which seemed to work pretty well.  I am also napping after lunch when possible because at that time I zonk out easily.  I do not pay for the advanced membership to Fitbit that provides constant reports and comparisons to your age group in the population.  However, I am taking advantage of the offer to create a one week report for free.  My results will be final on Saturday, and graphed.  I feel very competitive and funny about this challenge.  I want to see an improvement in my sleep in one week.  This may prove to be irrational as a goal, but I am still trying it.  I wonder if I can will myself to be a better sleeper in the long run. Over the last three days I have managed to increase my total time, but without the naps it would not have been the case.  This is one challenge for which gearing up is against my better interests.  How does one become a sleep champion?

Do you use any fitness monitoring devices or apps?  Have you found the feedback helpful in changing your habits?  What kind of sleep secrets have you learned, gentle reader?  I am on a quest for better rest.

Pool Party Pointers

June 9, 2015 2 Comments

Mission Inn Pool

Pool at Mission Inn

Summer is perfect for outdoor partying. Staying safe to enjoy the entire season injury free is important.  Families in Arizona enjoy trips to lakes, some river rafting, and many gatherings around pools. Since the heat is intense and the sun is strong we take precautions. Sunscreen, or better yet, sunscreen garments and hats are needed even when the weather is cloudy. Altitude is a factor in the intensity of solar damage. Well above sea level, at 2388 ft, Tucson delivers sunburn fast.  We need to be mindful for cosmetic reasons, and especially because we risk skin cancer from too much exposure.

When adults and kids gather poolside it is frequently assumed that “someone” is watching the kids next to the water.  In settings where there is no lifeguard on duty it is imperative to designate one or more full time sentries to watch the pool.  Switch frequently in order to share the responsibility and still enjoy the party.  The person who is watching does not need to be a strong swimmer, but does need to establish order and discipline.  With young people this is best done with humor and a complete up front understanding of what is permitted and what is prohibited.  A teen who is mature can help guard the younger kids, but only if adults are on hand to deal with decision making.  In the event that a person in the pool is in distress for any reason please remember to assist them in this order:

  1. THROW- any floatation device to assist the swimmer
  2. TOW-use a buoy with a cord to toss to the swimmer, then pull them to the side
  3. ROW-since a rowboat is not for pools this could be a raft used to reach the victim
  4. GO- swim out to the swimmer only if you are trained to do a rescue

These rules apply for open water, where row boats are discharged before sending a swimmer.  In a pool setting lots of things can be used to tow such as  towels, floating noodles, or even a chair cushion.  If you lie down on the deck and extend your arm you will be able to pull your swimmer to shore without being pulled in yourself.  You can also wade into the water where you can stand and extend something to tow the person.  Even if you think you are a strong swimmer avoid a swimming rescue if at all possible.  Drowning folks find super human strength and are often irrational.  The very worst pool parties end in double drownings.

Using good judgement avoids injury and trauma in the water and around the edge of the pool.  If you establish a rule, such as no running, you must stick to it.  I think when kids of different abilities to swim are together a no dunking rule is a wise one to make.  In general, respect for all involved is the aim of regulating water fun.  Lightening storms are common here, and come with a great deal of danger.  Err on the side of caution getting out of the water when lightening is spotted. It can travel surprisingly quickly.  Insist calmly that everyone exit the pool in order to be able to swim again another day.  I have seen very intelligent people resist this notion.  You may have to be very firm. It is so much better than crispy critters on the bottom of the pool.  Good luck striking the right balance between cannon balls and discipline.  Enjoy!!!

pool at night

pool at night

National Safety Month #McKinney Style

June 8, 2015 1 Comment

The month of June is designated as National Safety Month in the US.  Attention to safe practices and awareness is geared toward making the country safer.  During this year we are faced with graphic evidence that one threat to our safety can be the police.  The teen pool party in McKinney, Texas that turned ugly can only be seen as inappropriate.  An enraged cop tackled a teen girl smashing her face into the lawn, then drew his gun on bystanders.  I feel the fear as I watch these proceedings.  I imagine what my own feelings might be if I was taken down by an irrational armed cop.  This reality does make me fear and loathe what police do in my country.

The Department of Justice and the White House sponsored a task force to make recommendations for 21st century policing.  The report names 6 pillars on which to focus:

  1. Building Trust & Legitimacy
  2. Policy & Oversight
  3. Technology & Social Media
  4. Community Policing & Crime Reduction
  5. Training & Education
  6. Officer Wellness & Safety

There is a wider gap each day between the cops and the communities paying for police protection.  It is not an easy task to build trust when we observe this kind of event on a regular basis.  Law enforcement officers are hired to prevent crime and keep the peace.  When they look like the most criminal among us, we are right to question the authority we have given them.  I don’t know how to reverse this trend, other than doing what you can to love your neighbor and treat him as you want to be treated.  That includes all of us.

Sleep Quality, Honey Hibernation

June 7, 2015 6 Comments

honey

honey

Sleeping has always been easy for me. I fall asleep quickly when I am tired, and normally sleep through noise and disturbances that bother others. For the last few months I am challenged to get a full night of rest because my dog needs to go out several times during the night.  Once I have walked down the stairs and let her out for a few minutes my patterns  have been disturbed.  I have been searching for a remedy that fits this situation.  I don’t want a sleep aid, even melatonin, because I do need to wake up for the chore.  I am doing research into various ways to enhance or deepen sleep.  In the meantime my fitbit reads my sleep efficiency.  It reports the number of times awakened, and the time spent sleeping.  My rate normally ranges between 79% and 85%, but last night I hit 73% sleep efficiency, with 23 times awakened.  I need to take action to save my sanity.

Last week I read about honey hibernation.  I have tried it several times and it seems to work.  Sometimes I neglect to do it before retiring, but take the honey on my first trip downstairs with the dog.  I think it might help me fall back into deep sleep.  I am going to start a real experiment with the honey method to find out if it is making a significant difference.  I have asked for a 7 day sleep report from fitbit and will now be religious about taking my son full of honey at 6 pm daily.  Last night I got 57 minutes less sleep than I need.  I did nap today, which I think is a fine solution to the overall rest situation, but I want a sound restful night  as well.  I have used self hypnosis in the past.  That might be useful for my purpose, but I will see if I need more help, after a week of honey.  Have you tried this method, gentle reader?  It is for weight loss and better liver function, but a side effect is better sleep.  I am up for all of the above, especially if it is all that easy.

 

Roger La Zouche, 20th Great grandfather

June 5, 2015 6 Comments

Roger La Zouche

Roger La Zouche

Roger la Zusche, for his fidelity to King John, had a grant from that monarch of the manors of Petersfield and Maple Durham, co. Southampton, part of the lands of Geoffrey de Mandeville, one of the rebellious barons then in arms. In the next reign he was Sheriff of Devonshire, and had further grants from the crown. Roger la Zouche, Sheriff of Devonshire, between 1228 and 1231,was a younger son of Alan la Zouche and Alice de Belmeis. He was born circa 1182 in Ashby, Leicestershire, England. He was the heir of his brother William in 1199. He married Margaret (?) before 1203. He was a witness to Henry III’s confirmation of the Magna Charta. He died before 14 May 1238. The Roger la Zouche family manor, built in the 12th century, was converted into Ashby de la Zouche Castle in 1447 by Lord William Hastings.

Roger la Zouche [elder brother William dsp 1199], of Ashby-de-la-Zouche, Leics; served in Poitou, possibly under Geoffrey (died 1205), an illegitimate son of King John who held the homour of Perche and led an expedition of mercenaries to France in 1205, and again in 1214, though under some other leader; served in Ireland 1210; took an oath to uphold the baronial enforcement of Magna Carta 1215 but witnessed a charter issued by John 1216, hence had presumably switched support to the King by then; benefited from substantial land grants in Cambs, Devon, Hants and Norfolk at John’s and Henry III’s hands; Sheriff of Devon 1228-31; a witness to Henry III’s confirmation of Magna Carta Jan 1236/7; married Margaret (died in or after 1220 or even as late as 1232 or after) and died by 14 May 1238. [Burke’s Peerage]

Roger la Zusche who, for his fidelity to King John, had a grant from that monarch of the manors of Petersfield and Maple Durham, co. Southampton, part of the lands of Geffrey de Mandeville, one of the rebellious barons then in arms. In the next reign he was sheriff of Devonshire and had further grants from the crown. By Margaret, his wife, he had issue, Alan, his successor, and William, who left an only dau., Joice, who m. Robert Mortimer, of Richard’s Castle, and had issue, Hugh Mortimer, summoned to parliament as Lord Mortimer, of Richard’s Castle; and William Mortimer, who assumed the surname of Zouche, and was summoned to parliament as Lord Zouche, of Mortimer. He was s. by his elder son, Sir Alan la Zouche. [Sir Bernard Burke, Dormant, Abeyant, Forfeited, and Extinct Peerages, Burke’s Peerage, Ltd., London, 1883, p. 598, Zouche, Baron Zouche, of Ashby, co. Leicester]—————–Ancestral Roots, p. 43, younger son (of Alan Ceoche of La Coche), heir to brother William 1199, sheriff of Devonshire 1228-31, a witness to Henry III’s confirmation of the Magna Carta, d. shortly before 14 May 1238. Browning, p. 308, lists him as son of Roger, son of Alain IV, Viscount de Rohan, Count of Brittany and Mabilla, dau. of Raoul II, Lord of Fourgeres.————————————————————————– ———–ROGER LA ZOUCHE, brother and heir, paid £100 to have William’s lands in 1199. Those in England were seized, before 1204, while he was in Brittany, because of the war in Normandy, and he proffered 100m. to regain possession of them in that year. He served in Poitou, 1204-05 and 1214; was in Ireland, 1210; and swore to support the Barons who were enforcing Magna Carta in 1215. However, he soon joined the King, for he witnessed a royal charter, 11 June 1216, and was rewarded, both at the end of John’s reign and during the opening years of Henry III, with numerous grants of land. He had licence to go on pilgrimage to Santiago, 6 August 1220; was given money as a royal messenger, October 1224; was going to Brittany, with the King’s leave, May 1228; Sheriff of Devon, 10 November 1228-April 1231. In May 1229 he, with Philip Daubeney and Godfrey de Crawcombe, was allowed 100m. to cover the costs of a mission across the seas for the King. He served in Brittany, 1230; was ordered to find one knight at the King’s cost to aid the Duke of Brittany, 1234; and was among those who witnessed Henry III’s confirmation of Magna Carta at Westminster, 28 January 1236/7. He married Margaret, who was living in 1220 and presumably 1232. He died shortly before 14 May 1238. [Complete Peerage XII/2:931-2, (transcribed by Dave Utzinger)]

Roger Devonshire La Zouche (1175 – 1238)
is my 20th great grandfather
Sir Knight Alan II Knight Baron of Ashby Constable of the Tower of London de la Zouche (1205 – 1270)
son of Roger Devonshire La Zouche
Eudo LaZouche (1245 – 1279)
son of Sir Knight Alan II Knight Baron of Ashby Constable of the Tower of London de la Zouche
Elizabeth La Zouche (1274 – 1297)
daughter of Eudo LaZouche
Nicholas Poyntz (1303 – 1376)
son of Elizabeth La Zouche
Nicholas Poyntz (1355 – 1372)
son of Nicholas Poyntz
Pontius Poyntz (1372 – 1393)
son of Nicholas Poyntz
John Poyntz (1412 – 1447)
son of Pontius Poyntz
William Poyntz (1455 – 1494)
son of John Poyntz
Thomas Poyntz (1480 – 1562)
son of William Poyntz
Lady Susanna Elizabeth Poyntz (1528 – 1613)
daughter of Thomas Poyntz
Elizabeth Saltonstall (1557 – 1621)
daughter of Lady Susanna Elizabeth Poyntz
Henry Wyche (1604 – 1678)
son of Elizabeth Saltonstall
Henry Wyche (1648 – 1714)
son of Henry Wyche
George Wyche (1685 – 1757)
son of Henry Wyche
Peter Wyche (1712 – 1757)
son of George Wyche
Drury Wyche (1741 – 1784)
son of Peter Wyche
Mary Polly Wyche (1774 – 1852)
daughter of Drury Wyche
John Samuel Taylor (1798 – 1873)
son of Mary Polly Wyche
William Ellison Taylor (1839 – 1918)
son of John Samuel Taylor
George Harvey Taylor (1884 – 1941)
son of William Ellison Taylor
Ruby Lee Taylor (1922 – 2008)
daughter of George Harvey Taylor
Pamela Morse
I am the daughter of Ruby Lee Taylor

Baron Zouche is a title that has been created three times in thePeerage of England.  The de la Zouche family descended from Alan de la Zouche, sometimes called Alan de Porhoët and Alan la Coche (c. 1093-1150), a Breton who settled in England during the reign of Henry II. He was the son of Vicomte Geoffrey I de Porhoët and Hawisa of Brittany. He married Adeline (Alice) de Belmeis, daughter of Phillip de Belmeis and Maud la Meschine and died at North Molton in North Devon. He obtained Ashby in Leicestershire(called after him Ashby-de-la-Zouch) by his marriage. His son was Roger la Zouche (c. 1175 – bef. 14 May 1238). Roger La Zouche became the father of Alan la Zouche (1205–1270) and Eudo La Zouche.   Alan was justice of Chester and justice ofIreland under Henry III of England. He was loyal to the king during the struggle with the barons, fought at the Battle of Lewesand helped to arrange the peace of Kenilworth. As the result of a quarrel over some lands with John de Warenne, 6th Earl of Surrey, he was seriously injured in Westminster Hall by the earl and his retainers, and died on 10 August 1270.Eudo La Zouche married Millicent de Cantilupe.  Alan’s grandson, Alan la Zouche, was summoned to Parliament on 6 February 1299 as Baron la Zouche of Ashby. He was governor of Rockingham Castle and steward of Rockingham Forest. However, this barony fell into abeyance on his death in 1314. Another grandson of Alan de la Zouche was William la Zouche, Lord of Haryngworth, who wassummoned to Parliament as Baron Zouche, of Haryngworth, on 16 August 1308. His great-great-great-grandson, the fifth Baron, married Alice Seymour, 6th Baroness St Maur, and assumed this peerage in her right. Their son succeeded to both titles; his stepmother, Elizabeth St. John, was an aunt of the future Henry VII, a connection which proved useful to later members of the family. The seventh Baron was attainted in 1485 for loyalty to Richard III but was eventually restored to his title and a portion of his lands. On the death in 1625 of the eleventh and twelfth Baron, the peerages fell into abeyance between the latter’s daughters Hon. Elizabeth and Hon. Mary. However, in 1815 the Barony of Zouche was called out of abeyance in favour of Sir Cecil Bishopp, 8th Baronet, of Parham Park (see Bishopp baronets of Parham), who became the twelfth Baron Zouche. Through his mother he was a descendant of the aforementioned Hon. Elizabeth. The Barony of St Maur, however, remains in abeyance to this day. His two sons had died before him and on his death in 1828 he was succeeded in the Baronetcy by a cousin, while the Barony of Zouche once again fell into abeyance, this time between his two daughters Hon. Harriet Anne Curzon and Katherine Annabella, Lady Brooke-Pechell. His eldest son Lieutenant-Colonel Cecil Bisshopp had died in 1813 at age 30 at Ontario, Canada, from wounds received in action against the Americans in the War of 1812. The abeyance was terminated the following year in favour of Hon. Harriet Anne, who became the thirteenth Baroness. Known as Baroness de la Zouch, she was the wife of Hon. Robert Curzon, younger son of Assheton Curzon, 1st Viscount Curzon. Her son was the fourteenth Baron. On his death the title passed to his son, the fifteenth Baron, and then to the latter’s sister, the sixteenth Baroness. She never married and was succeeded by her second cousin, the seventeenth Baroness, the granddaughter of a younger son of the thirteenth Baroness. She was succeeded by her grandson, the eighteenth and (As of 2013) present Baron, who had already succeeded his father as 12th Baronet in 1944.Another grandchild of the original Alan de la Zouche, Joyce la Zouche, married Robert Mortimer of Richard’s Castle; one of their younger sons, William la Zouche, took the name of la Zouche and bought Ashby-de-la-Zouch from Alan in 1304, the latter to hold it until his death (1314). On 26 December 1323, he was created, by writ, Baron Zouche of Mortimer. This peerage became abeyant in 1406.Barons la Zouche of Ashby (1299)[edit]Alan la Zouche, 1st Baron la Zouche of Ashby (1267–1314) (abeyant 1314)Barons Zouche of Haryngworth (1308)[edit]Barons Zouche of Haryngworth:[1]William la Zouche, 1st Baron Zouche (18 or 21 December 1276– 11 or 12 March 1351)William la Zouche, 2nd Baron Zouche (c.25 December 1321 – 23 April 1382)William la Zouche, 3rd Baron Zouche (c. 1355 – 4 May 1396)William la Zouche, 4th Baron Zouche (c. 1373 – 3 November 1415)William la Zouche, 5th Baron Zouche (c. 1402 – 25 December 1462)William la Zouche, 6th Baron Zouche, 7th Baron St Maur (c. 1432 – 15 January 1468/9)John la Zouche, 7th Baron Zouche, 8th Baron St Maur (1459 – c. March 1525/6) (His attainder of 1485 was reversed in 1495)John la Zouche, 8th Baron Zouche, 9th Baron St Maur (c. 1486 – 10 August 1550)Richard la Zouche, 9th Baron Zouche, 10th Baron St Maur (c. 1510 – 22 July 1552)George la Zouche, 10th Baron Zouche, 11th Baron St Maur (c. 1526 – 19 June 1569)Edward la Zouche, 11th Baron Zouche, 12th Baron St Maur (6 June 1556 – 18 August 1625) (abeyant 1625)Cecil Bisshopp, 12th Baron Zouche (29 December 1752 – 11 November 1828) (abeyance terminated 1815; abeyant 1828)Harriet Anne Curzon (née Bisshopp), 13th Baroness Zouche (7 September 1787 – 15 May 1870) (abeyance terminated 1829)Robert Curzon, 14th Baron Zouche (16 March 1810 – 2 August 1873) son of 13th BaronessRobert Nathaniel Cecil George Curzon, 15th Baron Zouche (12 July 1851 – 31 July 1914) son of 14th BaronDarea Curzon, 16th Baroness Zouche (1860–1917) sister of 15th BaronMary Cecil Frankland, 17th Baroness Zouche (1875–1965) second cousin of 16th BaronessJames Assheton Frankland, 18th Baron Zouche and 12th Baronet (b. 1943) grandson of 17th BaronessThe heir apparent is the present holder’s son Hon. William Thomas Assheton Frankland (b. 1983).Barons Zouche of Mortimer (1323)[edit]William la Zouche, 1st Baron Zouche of Mortimer (d. 1337)Alan la Zouche, 2nd Baron Zouche of Mortimer (1317–1346)Hugh la Zouche, 3rd Baron Zouche of Mortimer (1338–1368)Robert la Zouche, 4th Baron Zouche of Mortimer (d. 1399)Joyce Burnell, 5th Baroness Zouche of Mortimer (d. 1406) (abeyant 1406)See also[edit]House of RohanBaron St MaurBishop baronets, of ParhamFrankland baronets, of ThirkelbyNotes[edit]Jump up^ Cokayne, George Edward (1910–1959). The Complete Peerage of England, Scotland, Ireland, Great Britain, and the United Kingdom. London: The St. Catherine Press.[page needed]References[edit]Leigh Rayment’s Peerage Pages [self-published source][better source needed]Burke’s Dormant and Extinct Peerages, London, 1883

Mythic Dreams

June 4, 2015 2 Comments

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Symbols in dreams are personal.  We dream only of faces we have seen before, even if we are barely familiar with the person.  The character, or archetype played by the face depends completely on personal experience.  Dream dictionaries and aids to interpret meaning found in dreams can only make references to universal archetypes.  To grasp the personal message brought to the dreamer the images themselves must be savored and visited in waking time.  Writing in a diary upon awaking before moving or engaging in the activities of the day is helpful. By keeping these notes on a regular basis you may discover themes that you can identify in a personal way.

Sometimes at crossroads in life a person will receive a vivid memorable message during sleep. The images and meaning of mythic dreams are significant beyond the every day way the unconscious communicates. The protagonists in the drama make a deep impression that lasts and speaks to the psyche for a long time. Carl Jung identified seven basic archetypes making appearances in dream time.

  1. The persona- the mask or personality you present to the public, your image
  2. The shadow- everything that is hidden in your personality, the unknown you
  3. The anima/animus- the masculine/feminine nature of your being, your sexuality
  4. The divine child- you in perfect innocence, uncomplicated childlike self
  5. The wise woman/man-wizardry and wisdom, a figure of authority and gravitas
  6. The great mother- the maternal nurturing quality that cares for life, provides
  7. The trickster- shows the error or the joke at the heart of the matter, points to poor judgement or precarious situations

Loaded images and story lines float through our heads while we sleep.  If we have a problem on the mind it is possible to solve it during a dream.  Practice and meditation on our own dream images will make clearer the point of the communication. Our subconscious warns us, encourages us, and sometimes tells us we are foolish.  It is never straightforward, but over time we can dig more deeply into the messages our dreams deliver on a nightly basis.  Have you ever kept a dream diary, gentle reader?  Have you ever had a mythic dream that changed your thinking?

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Loyalty and Customer Service

June 3, 2015 7 Comments

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In business clients have many choices. They can patronize establishments that consistently recognize them, treat them with respect and value their patronage. Some people like to know they are paying the lowest prices for everything they buy, without regard to quality.  The service aspect is less important to these folks.   Utilitarian objects are valuable if they last, require little care, and are simple to operate.  Environments in which people spend time like stores, salons, restaurants, hotels, or spas, are delivering a designed experience beyond the consumer goods they offer for sale.  They offer a feeling of being important and unique.  I believe the difference between average service and stellar service is attention to the importance of the customer’s special preferences.  This might sound basic, but think about times when you feel happy because everything is just the way you like it to be.  When services are applied with a broad brush, one size fits all, the result is rarely satisfying to the recipient.  Some minor as well as major attention must be paid to how the customer likes to proceed in order to create a service that customer will value highly.

I like to know that my service providers of all kinds are professional.  I can tell right off the bat because showing up on time is the first way to impress me that my business is center of attention.  Manners matter.  Punctuality, as well as finishing on target, are part of the customer service tool kit.  I remember those providers who make me wait without a call or explanation of the tardiness.  They do not get invited to return to my house.  On the other hand once I find a professional, punctual, polite provider my loyalty is fierce.  I don’t shop around for lower prices when I am pleased with the services I receive.  I will happily pay a little extra to know that my job will be done with pride.

When I need to call on a warranty for a service or product I am always impressed if that repair or replacement is done quickly and well.  I sent back a Bunn coffee maker three times while under warranty.  I now have that third model for years, working perfectly.  I was very pleased when they sent me new ones without hesitation along with a Fedex prepaid voucher to send the broken one back for investigation.  I will probably be a Bunn customer for life both for the product quality and the customer relationship. I feel the same way about my health club, my contractor, mechanic, and massage therapists.  As a consumer I am particular, but not hard to please. Once I have found a match that works well for me I stick with it.  What kind of customer are you, gentle reader?  Are you more loyal or adventurous?

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