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My grapefruit tree is healthy and bears very well for months each winter. We enjoy fresh juice daily from January until about the end of March. The intoxicating aroma of the blossoms fills the air for about a month in March. The plant is ruled by the sun, like all citrus fruits. It has zingy, cooling and cleansing properties that are prized by health lovers. The fruit and the juice are delightful, but the essential oil of grapefruit has very useful qualities. Buy pure unadulterated oil and store it in the dark because it oxidizes quickly, therefore has short shelf life. Using it with a carrier oil, like jojoba, it can be very helpful to warm up and boost circulation. The benefits of using grapefruit in a massage oil include:
To use the oil for aromatherapy delivered by inhalation you can use a diffuser or use a few drops straight up on a handkerchief. The subtle and immediate effects of the inhalation include:
I never get tired of the smell and the flavor of grapefruit. It makes me happy and nourishes me. Cocktails made with grapefruit juice are very high on my favorites list as well. What is your favorite way to experience grapefruit?
I was privileged to spend the weekend with a group of about 170 people who came from all over the country to a conference on the Spirituality of Healing taught by James Finley. The group included many mental health professionals and teachers who were earning credits in continuing education in their professions. Many were members of churches with meditation/prayer groups. I was new to the genre, but felt right at home in he congenial student group. I saw an ad for this in a local paper and followed up with some research into James Finley. I ordered a couple of audio books he wrote and signed up for the conference. The resort where it was held is where the Dalai Lama taught in September of 1993, so I have very fond memories of the place. The Hilton El Conquistador was turned into the the El Comtemplador for a couple of days. The hotel is dog friendly so my partner and dog could come along for a staycation away from home. It was a remarkable experience. I did not photograph the sessions or the participants because I did not want to distract myself from the teaching. I am happy I made that decision because those photos would add little to this post.
Dr. Finley is very generous with free resources on his website, His teaching in person is designed to pack the time spent together with dense, rich, profound, yet simplistic and practical ideas. His background allows him to use language of psychotherapy as well as religious language to explain his concepts. He is a brilliant speaker, but the style of presenting really enhances the message he brings. First of all, he establishes silence in the hall where the conference takes place. There is time and space outside the room to talk. On the second day the group broke bad and got noisy, so he asked that we reestablish the silence in the room. He uses humor to make his point many times, and refers to patient/clinician dialogs to shed light with specific examples. In his opening remarks he lets the audience know that trauma is a difficult and personal subject to address. He encouraged each person to leave the room, move around, take breaks as needed. He repeated several times, “To thine own self be true.” This was good for me when I decided the chairs were not sized so well for me, so I took up a spot against the wall where I had support from the wall for sitting or could even lie down. The sessions covered in sequence his Seven Steps of Spiritual Healing, which logically build upon the preceding steps. He speaks for a little over an hour to cover the material and then a 15-20 minute discussion is opened with the students. A short break for everyone is followed by the next lecture. The time is very well ordered and managed to the greatest advantage of the students. I must say the staff at the resort could not have been more pleasant and helpful, which was icing on the very tasty cake.
He shows the highest regard for the integrity of the students in his assignment of homework. He gave us several exercises to do on our own that will require a great deal of time and consideration, and then moved on to his core curriculum. If you practice you reap the benefits of practice. If you don’t, you don’t. Dr. Finley drives this point home in dramatic and impressive ways in his teaching. Not only is the task of enlightenment or healing our own responsibility, but we are doing it as a microcosm of all that is. We can only put ourselves in the position of least resistance for our desired outcome, and then let go. Deep meaning, philosophy, poetry, art and love are contained in each precious moment, available to us, and being created by us. We have all heard such statements somewhere in our past, and may believe them. What Dr. Finley offers is a system, a practice, a devotional idea to stabilize the consciousness in a state of pure love. It requires diligence and patience. He ended by giving us homework for seven years. It was the perfect wrap up for this conference. He showed how to use lexia divina, discursive meditation, and practice to move into and through the seven steps. He assigned us a step each week for seven weeks, then do that seven times (49 weeks) after a short break we were to take it up again from the beginning..seven steps, one step a week , repeated 7 times. Of course, after a break we are to start at the beginning, until we have done this practice for 7 years. I am sure some kind of heavy duty breakthrough would have to take place if we were all to do our homework. I love his optimism in assigning it. If you have a chance to study with these contemplatives, take advantage of it.
The earth appreciates that I need less travel in my life that I did when I was younger. I was a carbon hog, flying all the time. I enjoyed it and will not regret it now that I like staying at home better than ever. I got while the getting was very good, and now I fly with much more selective purposes and goals in mind. I saw a lot of the world, and plan to see more of it. I also plan to concentrate on the wonderful options available in Arizona that require little time in transit. I like the idea of maximum tourism time and minimum time on the road. We have stayed at resorts around Tucson and in Scottsdale that make us happy for different reasons. These days any hotel stay has to include our coon hound, Artemisia, who is a hotel fan. A short get away with the dog that includes some dining and walking in nature works as a retreat for the whole family. I usually like to get in the water, but since I do that at home all the time it is not my first priority when looking for a weekend location near home. There are many benefits the staycation offers the holiday maker as well as Mother Earth:
Consider a place near home that makes you want to get away, but not very far away. You might find you will come back from holiday much more rested and perhaps in harmony with the earth.
For our Father’s Day fling I took Bob to Iron John’s Brewing Company for some beer and a tee shirt. His needs are simple, with craft beer and tee shirts always hitting the mark. We had tried some of the beers last week at pizza throw down and had agreed that Iron John was our favorite new discovery that intrigued us. They hold free tastings each Saturday from 11-6pm in their small but very cool artisan brewery and bottle shop. They are not opening a bar or a restaurant. They have a passion for the art of beer making, and are sticking to producing small batches of seasonally changing beers. They sell in a few local restaurants, and are open at the brewery Thursday-Saturday for sales of the current line up. Although I am not much of a beer drinker myself I liked all of the samples I tried. They take great care to adjust each water source for each beer, sometimes adding minerals to distilled water to arrive at the perfect chemical balance. They also buy small batches of brewing yeast and grow it themselves to assure quality. I was impressed with the taste, the tour, and the dedication these folks are showing to making an excellent local product for local consumption. I am always happy to support locals serving tasty treats to locals. Bob has a beer collection to make his week a pleasant and delicious one. We recommend a visit and a tour to anyone who likes beer.
I ate lunch today at my new favorite restaurant, Cafe Botanica. This charming restaurant is nestled into the exotic greenery at Tucson Botanical Gardens. I visit frequently and for no particular reason had never eaten there. When I met a neighbor who works there as a server I decided to make a point to try the food. To my great surprise the offerings are the most seasonal, the most creative, and for my personal taste, the most delightful plates in the city of Tucson. The concept is to make use of every kind of local, organic, sustainable source of ingredients. I think they go beyond any other restaurant to achieve this goal, but without the brilliance of Chef Cristopher and his wild creativity the concept would not be as smashing. He combines ingredients I would not have thought of, including some I have never eaten, such as radish tops. The result was exactly the kind of full flavor, gorgeous to see, plate of variety I want to eat all the time. The great news is that I have a garden, and they will trade me prepared food for some of my extra produce. This could become a serious habit…the kind with only positive effects!!!
New Summer hours will start on June 3, including a weekend brunch. Dog membership also begins on June 3, and has expanded to inviting member dogs on both Tuesday and Thursday this year. The innovative menu, and the fact that the gardens create a cooler micro climate for morning walks will be an exciting new addition to our neighborhood. There will also be Thursday dinners this summer with BYOB wine. This is a major upgrade for Tucson. I highly recommend Cafe Botanica to anyone. There is an air conditioned inside dining room for times when it is too hot. The gourmet, homemade dishes are very reasonably priced, and there is no chef more caring, and into it, than Christopher. Mandy, my friend and server, puts her heart into making guests feel right at home.
This is how steel is turned into feathers. Jerry W Harris is a sculptor in Tucson Arizona with a special affinity for birds. His realistic aviary is not only anatomically correct, but also portrays action and interrelationship in every piece. He is working on a sculpture in which one quail will be taking off to fly. It is fascinating to see the process of making the heavy metal appear to be as light as feathers. It requires awesome skill, and as he explains, some knowledge of worthy shortcuts. He has perfected his realism by study of bird anatomy. He is serious about details, including realistic behavior. I think it is fun to watch the detail as it takes shape.
Yesterday I enjoyed making art in a new way with Jeanne Fellow at Blue Raven Art School. I had visited her studio and purchased a couple of her beautiful pieces and learned about the LumenArt class. My classmate Jeannie Gentry had done exactly the same thing. We both were very excited to try our hand at making one of these very special lamps. Our 5 hour class went by very quickly. Everything was set up for us on the shaded patio. Each of us had our own work table and basic tools. After a thorough demonstration of the basic techniques we chose colors and started our own experiment in color mixing. Some of the inks are iridescent, but those also block the light from within when it is a finished LumenArt. The fun of it all is that you don’t know how it will really look until you light it. Jeanne encouraged us to feel free and confident to play around. Both students created three possible candidates for lighting. The class materials include two sheets of incredible paper that allows all kinds of layering and special techniques without tearing. We each bought one extra sheet because we had enough time and were seriously into it. When dry we selected one to become our lamp. Choosing color for the base and tearing the final design we had supervision and plenty of encouragement from our teacher. This project is practically impossible to do badly. The materials guarantee that the finished product will be thrilling. She teaches a class in using these techniques on fabrics that will also be fun. If you are an experienced artist/craftperson you will love this class. If you think you are not creative and have no talent for art you will be blown away by your own amazing abilities when Jeanne shows you how to release them. My LumenArt is now making me very happy and proud in my living room at home. I also have two other fabulous pieces of art that I made. I even love my scraps. I would encourage anyone to investigate creativity and find your own inner light in one of Jeanne’s classes. She rules.
Athena is often mentioned as a war goddess because she was never defeated. She is also the goddess of wisdom and crafts. Her protection is important in firing the kiln. The ceramic demons that destroy a firing can take over without her blessing:
Homer’s Epigrams Fragment 14 (trans. Evelyn-White) (Greek epic C8th or C7th B.C.) :
“Potters, if you give me a reward, I will sing for you. Come, then, Athena [goddess of pottery], with hand upraised over the kiln. Let the pots and all the dishes turn out well and be well fired: let them fetch good prices and be sold in plenty in the market. Grant that the potters may get great gain and grant me so to sing to them. But if you turn shameless and make false promises, then I call together the destroyers of kilns, Suntribos (Shatter) and Smaragon (Smash) and Asbetos (Charr) and Sabaktes (Crash) and Omodamos (Crudebake) who can work this craft much mischief. Come all of you and sack the kiln-yard and the buildings: let the whole kiln be shaken up to the potter’s loud lament. As a horse’s jaw grinds, so let the kiln grind to powder all the pots inside.”
It is obvious to me that Rose Cabat made friends with Athena long ago in order to achieve such masterful results in the kiln. Her work is unique because her special glazes create a silky feel that is her secret weapon. The pots are vivid and beautifully shaped, inviting touch. The soft surface she creates is like no other. She calls the pots feelies, and has become famous for these special touchable forms. Her many collectors are happy to pay $400 and up for a tiny feelie because they only go up in value over time. Rose is still making pots from her wheel chair at age 100, and continues to be in very good standing with Athena. She has a show now at the Tucson Museum of Art featuring her work over her long career. It is incredible to see in person. I have seen her work over the years, but there are so many in one place that it delights the eye..and makes us wish we could feel them. There are some for sale in the Museum shop if you want your own to have and to hold.
I recently reread the book Centering by Mary C Richards, a potter. In it she waxes very poetic about the subject of pottery. When I was covered with mud I considered Ms Richards to be fluffy and woo woo. About 35 years later I see how centering clay on a wheel is sheer poetry. I also notice my own approach to centering, which has never left me. I now like to center my body from the core in deep water, using tubular units for balance. This month as I attempt to write a poem a day I searched my memory for inspiration. Janet Burner, queen of all alchemists and artist of great skill and talent, popped into my mind. She has awesome technical skills and an alliance with fire like nobody I have ever seen. I like fire myself and enjoyed my time as a kiln queen. Janet has perfected various styles of firing to add variety and excitement to her work. She has always been famous for her raku. Now she has evolved other techniques, both modern and ancient, to bring her work to life.
In the kiln the pot is actually born. Just like an animal at birth, it also has a chance of dying. Potters must accept that some work will crack or be ruined in the firing. They must also accept that pottery is breakable, and glazes can only be controlled to a certain extent. Intimate knowledge and wisdom of the firing process results from practice and experimentation. I think of Janet Burner as the ultimate goddess of the fire. We talked about how ironic it is that her last name is Burner, both because of fire and because one of the oldest techniques used in finished ceramics is called burnishing. Her work today is created in a wonderful studio full of light, love, and art that she built herself. The artful courtyard garden serves as a gallery to display her work. She continues to teach at the Tucson Museum of Art School and grace our community with her participation in the Pima Arts Council Open Studio Tours. Next weekend you can visit artists and see their studios all over Tucson. This is an excellent way to find art and artists.
April is for poets, and we are all poets. There are many ways to celebrate. I have taken the challenge to write a poem each day in April. My approach is zen. The weekend workshop on ekphrastic poetry helped me find a place to begin. By responding to art, the ekphrastic poet reflects, or echoes the artist by interpreting the artwork. Memorizing a poem is another way to participate in the fun this month. My father could recite almost all of the Cremation of Sam McGee by Robert W Service, which was always impressive. Stories told in rhyme stay in the mind’s eye.
Poets.org has a poetry party happening right now. You can make a commonbook with quotes and poems using resources on the site. If you are lucky enough to live in Tucson you can visit our Poetry Center to experience space completely dedicated to poetry. Docents there are happy to give tours of the rare books and more if you call for an appointment. Today in Tucson the 31st annual Poetry Festival invites the public for free readings and activities all weekend. Fluency and artistry enhance the lives of those who listen. Tune in this month to hear what you may have been missing.